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So my water broke or maybe it was bloody show at 3am this morning… Feb 1…   We called the midwife and informed her of our exciting news…

We went back to bed and later realized we needed to dry the sheets I had washed last night and make the bed for birthing… I got hungry and had to pee… We both had our moments of excitement, anxiety, nostalgia,  and intimacy… Lots of cuddling and gentle kisses and caresses…

We were both preparing for a long day and reassuring each other through our actions we could count on each other for support, love, and guidance through this new birth experience…

As the day has progressed, I was able to spend time with our son… play, watch tv, and even eat a wonderful lunch prepared by my mother with lots of love… Whom we decided to keep our little secret that her one and only granddaughter was making her way to our world…

My husband took a nap while I played with our son and then I took a nap while he played with him…

Contractions have gotten stronger and closer together…

Now the trick… wait about 3 more hours for our son’s bedtime and officially let my mother in our little secret… I’ve been in labor since 3am…

I must say one huge difference between my hospital birth and the beginning of my home birth… is that I am calm, relaxed, and enjoying this beautiful adventure…

My husband has made comments about the differences between my behavior in the hospital and home… He’s even asked me several times if I feel pain… yes… I feel pain… but I’d rather like it to be put that I feel uncomfortable surges…

My motto during these surges:  Relaxation breathing with “I Trust My Body”…

To be continued as time progresses…

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Write down 10 things you wish you could do today.  Do not include things you should do… Only include things you want to do…

Do 1 of the 10 things and write down or ponder how it felt to indulge in one of your wishes…

Feel free to comment on the task… 🙂

I just visited a friend’s blog who is living out her passion!!! What a wonderful way to spend your energy… Doing something you love…

www.saralattisstone.com

What’s your passion? What do you love to do? How did you find it?

Well let me just tell you I am excited… I feel like I had a productive week and well we should all celebrate our wins big or small…

For one thing… if we talk about positive change in our lives then we feel energized… motivated… excited…

So I’ve decided to make Fridays… SHARE YOUR WINS…

Everybody is invited to post a win, achievement, or positive action which they would like to receive acknowledgement for!

I’ll start… 🙂

I’ve nursed my feverish son to health with the least amount of medicine necessary to keep the fever from going too high!

I’ve networked, picked a schedule for social networking sites and well stood my ground by saying no without feeling guilty when I felt like my family was more  important…

Even the little things are WINS… Wins are gains or changes which move us towards happiness…  Everybody has different wins… don’t be afraid to share…

“Love the Life you life…”

And in the words of my colleague…

“Life is a gift, untie the knot”

Buddha: Consider others as yourself.

Jesus: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Hello…

It’s been a little while… I’ve been doing some pretty intense changes in my life and moving towards happiness! It feels great! I feel wonderful, stable, and alive…

So in the past year or so I’ve been reading many many books including spiritual, religious, and self-help books and I’ve come to the realization that I am a practicing Catholic who seems to understand basic Buddhist ideas…
In one of the many books I’ve read by Thich Naht Nahn, Thay (as he is known) states that you shall not abandon your maternal church. He goes on to explain that Christians and Buddhists have many things in common and/or similar beliefs so why not incorporate some of the Buddhist teachings into our spirituality.

It sounded interesting and possible at the time… so then I chose to read “Living Buddha, Living Christ” to understand more about the similarities and differences between Christians and Buddhists.

I was very surprised to see the connection between Christianity and Buddhism.

It actually confirmed my suspicion that many religions have similar ideals or beliefs that are expressed in different ways.

Once again, I felt drawn to Buddhism and felt comfortable with the connections and/or different terminology expressed between Christianity and Buddhism.

In fact I prefer to think of negative energy rather than sin, evil, or the devil… I love the idea of positive energy, the Holy Spirit, enlightenment, Jesus…

After this, we took a family vacation to Thailand… where the majority of the population practice Buddhism. It was fascinating to see how much reverence and honor Buddhist Thais exhibited in their Temples.

I felt at awe and at peace when I encountered Buddhist monks and entered the Buddhist Temples.

It was as if a I felt a positive energy, a love, a newfound peace while paying my respects to Buddha at a Buddhist Temple.

The same positive energy, love, and newfound peace I felt 10 years ago when I visited the Vatican…

The same positive energy, love, and newfound peace I’ve always felt when I’ve entered any Catholic Church to pray for that matter…

I’ve even been able to find it during Savasana after I practice yoga…

So now I am reading a book called “The Art of Happiness” by the Dalai Lama himself… I love the book… I am only in Part 2 of the book and still have to finish reading… but as I finished reading Part 1 it occurred to me…

Can a practicing Catholic practice Buddhism at the same time?

“Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.”

-Albert Schweitzer

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